Loving Him

Was chatting with a friend online, and he sent me these words, which i found quite meaningful:

Love the person u like in your heart, not in your mind. If you base your relationship on feelings, it will fail for there are ups & downs in feelings.he is there to be loved, not toyed around.

Love him for who he is. Don't even think about changing any bit about him. 6 billion people in this world & 6 billion different personalities. he is special & he will stay that way. You change any part of him, you'll change him forever.
Don't substitute him for anyone else, they are just unique in their own ways.

Love whole-heartedly.he sacrificed a lot for you so you'd better really treasure him.he could have just got up & date a so much more dashing guy/gal in town but he chose you instead all because of love. So love him people;not play with him.

Don't just get him to beg you to stay or whatsoever. If you're with him, love him. Don't cause a strain in the relationship, you'll end up loving each other out of pity or charity, that's not respecting love at all. Respect love the way it is & everything will be the best it can be. I've been there & I know how it feels.

Don't expect perfection from him. he's the only one in the world & he's done the best he could.Like another guy while you're in a relationship? Then I think it's time you remain single for a while. Don't go around breaking other guy's hearts, it's the most tragic thing to do.

Tell the truth, never hide anything from him. If you want him to tell you everything, do the same. Don't go calling others"dear" or "darling", how would it feel if your boy calls other people the same way? Be faithful, enough is enough.

Socialise only when you're single. You socialise & flirt around is to get the guys of your dreams. Get it over when he's already yours, don't ask for more.

It never kills to be romantic. Think, be flexible. Giving him sex isn't the only
gift for him Be realistic, he's human & he lives life just like you. Something sweet & simple always get the job done.Sex or money doesn't exist between couples, it's the love.

Never promise him that you'll love himforever because your forever might end the next day. Love him as if each day is the last.

Sweet talks only apply for singles, not for attached. Do that & you'll really break your boy's heart. Isn't good being too well-known too, it'll give him a sense of insecurity. Remember, INSECURITY.

Promise him & make sure you never break it. Swear to him & make sure you keep it. Pledge your love to him & him alone.

Loving him is giving him your heart to break it but trusting him not to. Instead,he'll cherish it & protect it. That's love.Give him your heart,
your life, your everything.
Lay down your life & prepare to die for him when the need arises. But stay strong & live through another day,he can never live without you.

Never, ever walk out of his life.he won't just cry his heart out & carry on living as per normal,he'd die.If his heart that you've broken, how would you ever know how he feels?

Winning a guy's heart isn't the final victory. Don't leave him once you've won his love.Love him all the way till the end of time,love him till old age, love him till death. If you can love him till the end of time, you've earned the honor & respect for you've truly loved him.

he chose you because he believes that you can fulfil your promise. Win his heart & love him over. Remember, the guy isn't a trophy for display,he's someone to love, not to show off to your "friends". Stay humble yet proud that he's the one for you. Respect him for the way he is, never despise him & never mistreat him, never even think of toying with him

hope that u guys will treasure ur boyfriend and not to hurt him just like someone did to me..

Presenting Keith's new song! 多爱了。