Different Pace
Haven't been writing for the past 2 weeks, well, nothing inspiring.....so nothing to write. Had been trying to curb myself from thinking too much for the past weeks. Elf just celebrated his birthday, we clubbed ..we drank and we ate. Our 'family' had a pleasant dinner on tuesday, there was a seat reserved for my "the other half"....but in the end, sad to say it was left empty.
Came across this interesting short story: Once there was this old man and old lady, this old man tends to walk very fast and the old lady tends to be slower. The old man always wonder why the old lady walks so slow and similarly, the old lady never understands why the old man walks so fast. However, no matter how fast the old man is, and how slow the old lady is, they had never lost sight of each other before. Because of love. The old man loves her deeply and never forgets to wait for her. The old lady, never fail to hasten herself to catch up with him.
All of us walk at a different pace in our lifes.... And it is love that allow us to overcome the distance and brings two person together, even though both are at a different pace. A simple little effort to accomodate can be such a touching scene.... Do we really appreciate it? I guess there are many things in life that we often can't bring ourselves to accept what others have done, maybe we can't allow ourselves to execute such acts, but at least try to understand the fact that others have their reason for doing so. Accomodating and understanding makes a relationship smoother isn't it?
When would you think that someone loves you? When he says it's because you are gorgeous or cute? Or is it when he thinks you are a sex god to him? Or when he brings you out for romantic dinner and expensive presents? Or when he plainly tell you right in your face "i love you!"? I guess none of the above would convince me...... Those would only mean that he likes you. When there's love, it's not about merit points anymore..... it's about accepting the ugly side of you. When he's still sleeping beside you even if you turn fat and ugly. The smallest cheapest gift can represent love as long there is meaning encrypted. The kind of self-scrificial actions might be a better impact of "i love you!".
爱与被爱不一定成正比。(Abstracted from fish leong's 可惜不是你) Found this statement quite meaningful. Love can never be fair, and can never be compared. What you have given may not be all requitted, just be glad that you enjoyed the process and let fate decide the ending. Been telling this to myself all my life, though i seemingly doing stupid things in the eyes of others, but that is what i will do for the sake of love, and i had never regretted. Move on when it is time to move on, at least I've tried my best . Easier said than done..lolx. Well, have to always remind ourselves that when you realise that there's no result to something....hogging on to it might be a hindrance to both parties and for his well being, it is time to let go, give him a chance to move on too. Love can take another form.
Been slacking on my school work for this week, guess i better buck up. Pray hard.....lolx.
Came across this interesting short story: Once there was this old man and old lady, this old man tends to walk very fast and the old lady tends to be slower. The old man always wonder why the old lady walks so slow and similarly, the old lady never understands why the old man walks so fast. However, no matter how fast the old man is, and how slow the old lady is, they had never lost sight of each other before. Because of love. The old man loves her deeply and never forgets to wait for her. The old lady, never fail to hasten herself to catch up with him.
All of us walk at a different pace in our lifes.... And it is love that allow us to overcome the distance and brings two person together, even though both are at a different pace. A simple little effort to accomodate can be such a touching scene.... Do we really appreciate it? I guess there are many things in life that we often can't bring ourselves to accept what others have done, maybe we can't allow ourselves to execute such acts, but at least try to understand the fact that others have their reason for doing so. Accomodating and understanding makes a relationship smoother isn't it?
When would you think that someone loves you? When he says it's because you are gorgeous or cute? Or is it when he thinks you are a sex god to him? Or when he brings you out for romantic dinner and expensive presents? Or when he plainly tell you right in your face "i love you!"? I guess none of the above would convince me...... Those would only mean that he likes you. When there's love, it's not about merit points anymore..... it's about accepting the ugly side of you. When he's still sleeping beside you even if you turn fat and ugly. The smallest cheapest gift can represent love as long there is meaning encrypted. The kind of self-scrificial actions might be a better impact of "i love you!".
爱与被爱不一定成正比。(Abstracted from fish leong's 可惜不是你) Found this statement quite meaningful. Love can never be fair, and can never be compared. What you have given may not be all requitted, just be glad that you enjoyed the process and let fate decide the ending. Been telling this to myself all my life, though i seemingly doing stupid things in the eyes of others, but that is what i will do for the sake of love, and i had never regretted. Move on when it is time to move on, at least I've tried my best . Easier said than done..lolx. Well, have to always remind ourselves that when you realise that there's no result to something....hogging on to it might be a hindrance to both parties and for his well being, it is time to let go, give him a chance to move on too. Love can take another form.
Been slacking on my school work for this week, guess i better buck up. Pray hard.....lolx.
posted by Jaron @ 6:24 AM
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