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Just celebrated Alvin Di's birthday last night @ St james. It's been a long since so many of us gathered together. But somehow i felt that the mood wasn't as warm as years back. Guess it's because all of us seldom hang out nowadays le. :(. Nonetheless, i guess the bond is still there somehow. And all of us are always around to help one another!
Clubbing seems to get kind of unfamiliar recently, i guess i'm really getting old bah, lolx. No longer have the mood to move around to say hi and socialize. That's so me! Drinking at the bar counter with my buddies becomes my only joy there.
How does it feel when the person who has just dumped you tells you that he's already attached? Well, i should be getting used to it actually, but it still hurt. The past seems like a nightmare, and i can't bring myself back into it anymore. Well, i've decided to put love aside and move on.
Was pondering over the question of being right or wrong. Realised that we debate over this issue every other seconds, but ultimately, what are we trying to do? To justify our own doings? Or condemning what others are doing? It is sometimes frustrating and tiring to remind someone else what is the right thing to do. I have concluded that to each of his own, and at the end of the path, one has to be responsible for the path one takes, and who are we to justify what is the right path to take? You may have kindly asked a pedestrian to take the walking path but too bad, the car skided into that pathway and knocked him dead. That's fate i guessed. Just say what you think is correct and leave the decision to them.
I think one thing we have to learn as we grow older is how to be accepting and having a larger capacity for differences. No one should be devoided of happiness just because you think he/she does not deserve it.
Self Reflection Questions:
1. Have you made use of someone directly or indirectly such that no one benefits anything other than yourself?
2. Have you borrowed something from someone and conveniently forgot to return just because you think he does not need it at this point in time?
3. Have you done something for your parents or family to show that you do care for them?
4. Have you offered your help to people around you without the intention of demanding anything in return?
5. Have you looked at yourself in the mirror when you are criticising others about how ugly they are?
6. Have you thought of the possibility being a victim yourself when you are harming someone else?
7. Have you betrayed someone and worrying about him doing the same to you?
8. Have you forgotten about someone who have loved you so much?
I guess all of us are guilty of a few at least. But well, nobody's a saint. Face yourself and thy shall be a better person. I'm not trying to bitch but honestly, don't you find the above kind of familiar? lolx.
Nice piano piece, compliments from Jeric. :P
Clubbing seems to get kind of unfamiliar recently, i guess i'm really getting old bah, lolx. No longer have the mood to move around to say hi and socialize. That's so me! Drinking at the bar counter with my buddies becomes my only joy there.
How does it feel when the person who has just dumped you tells you that he's already attached? Well, i should be getting used to it actually, but it still hurt. The past seems like a nightmare, and i can't bring myself back into it anymore. Well, i've decided to put love aside and move on.
Was pondering over the question of being right or wrong. Realised that we debate over this issue every other seconds, but ultimately, what are we trying to do? To justify our own doings? Or condemning what others are doing? It is sometimes frustrating and tiring to remind someone else what is the right thing to do. I have concluded that to each of his own, and at the end of the path, one has to be responsible for the path one takes, and who are we to justify what is the right path to take? You may have kindly asked a pedestrian to take the walking path but too bad, the car skided into that pathway and knocked him dead. That's fate i guessed. Just say what you think is correct and leave the decision to them.
I think one thing we have to learn as we grow older is how to be accepting and having a larger capacity for differences. No one should be devoided of happiness just because you think he/she does not deserve it.
Self Reflection Questions:
1. Have you made use of someone directly or indirectly such that no one benefits anything other than yourself?
2. Have you borrowed something from someone and conveniently forgot to return just because you think he does not need it at this point in time?
3. Have you done something for your parents or family to show that you do care for them?
4. Have you offered your help to people around you without the intention of demanding anything in return?
5. Have you looked at yourself in the mirror when you are criticising others about how ugly they are?
6. Have you thought of the possibility being a victim yourself when you are harming someone else?
7. Have you betrayed someone and worrying about him doing the same to you?
8. Have you forgotten about someone who have loved you so much?
I guess all of us are guilty of a few at least. But well, nobody's a saint. Face yourself and thy shall be a better person. I'm not trying to bitch but honestly, don't you find the above kind of familiar? lolx.
Nice piano piece, compliments from Jeric. :P
posted by Jaron @ 8:15 AM
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